xammp help (mysql)

[xxbryantd]

So im try explain this the best i can but im needing to connect to the mysql database from my ip usually id type myip:porthere and it bring me to mysql db but when i do that with mysql running it takes abit longer and then it dont connect to the db port 3306 is open idk what to do if u need any info ill get back to u when u ask for it