Take time for setting up a server!
Read docs and tutorials if you want to do it the right way.
Nothing on this planet is just as plug and play - or buy and own it...
Sorry to say - but its hard to read your text .. no >.< (dots) or comma for sentences.
Altrea is right - XAMPP is free -> and its living from its users worldwide and of course engineers. And we all have a life not in front of the pc too.
There is no need to pay for support, even that is free. So there is no guarantee for an solving question in a short time.
Of course its frustrating when nobody answers, but just be patient, somebody will
But - what is your problem in this threat exactly?
To your question to look at your ports?
Best is -> Open XAMPP-Control-Panel and click on Check-Ports button. That will give you an report with ports are opened and not or other programms are using ports XAMPP needs.