Well, I asked over on the Mac OS X forum, with no responses. I seem to be having the same problem here in M$ land so I'll ask again...
I tried opening the phonebook.sqlite database in SQLiteManager add-on for Firefox, but got nothing. Thinking it might be a file permission issue I used sudo -i to change to root, changed to the appropriate directory, and ran 'sqlite3 phonebook.sqlite', but I couldn't get anything out of it; sqlite said the file was either encrypted or not a sqlite file? How do I open this sqlite database so I can see the structure, etc.?